Submitted by Rosemarie Davenport
Sylvia Paish joined the Parksville & District Community Choir (Oceanside Concert Choir) in the late 1980s. Her musical journey didn’t stop there; she also became a member of the Madrigal Singers (Oceanside A Capella Consort Singers). By the 1990s, she was managing both groups and continued until 2002. During this time, Sylvia also served as President of the PDMA (Oceanside Music), singlehandedly keeping the organization afloat during tough times. Her dedication to music and leadership remained strong until her passing in 2014.
Music was in Sylvia’s bones, and she was a force to be reckoned with. Her wry humor and quick wit were ever-present. Her reports to the Board, always handwritten in pencil, were pithy, funny, and on point. Unafraid to voice her opinion, Sylvia was candid and direct, qualities that defined her both in her musical and professional life. As a high school French and Phys Ed teacher, she was passionate about education and her students, always striving to bring out their best. Sylvia believed that young people were the future and worked tirelessly to instill in them a sense of worth and the tools to excel.
Sylvia’s influence extended beyond the classroom and choir. She was known for her kindness and generosity, often discreetly paying the annual fees for PDMA members who were struggling financially. This was her way of ensuring that everyone could continue to enjoy music, regardless of their circumstances. Her altruism often went unnoticed, as she preferred to remain anonymous in her generosity.
After Sylvia’s passing, the PDMA sought a way to honor her immense contributions to the organization, music, and education. This led to the creation of the Sylvia Paish Bursary. Initially awarded as a single bursary, the program has since expanded. It is given to students from Ballenas Secondary School (Parksville) and Kwalicum Secondary School (Qualicum) who have participated in music programs both at school and in their community. These bursaries support students wishing to pursue vocal and/or instrumental musical careers.
Sylvia was truly one of a kind. She would have been both embarrassed and delighted to know that her passions are being honored in such a meaningful way. Her legacy continues to inspire and support young musicians, ensuring that her love for music lives on through future generations.